tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81532138281064809892024-02-19T04:16:48.792-08:00dust92Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153213828106480989.post-54230060392165597222012-09-28T02:38:00.001-07:002014-09-21T00:44:45.365-07:00Not this again<div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Says Jeff Goldstein of Patterico:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In addition to what I believe was a behind the scenes whisper campaign against me, this honorable man made, later on, an unsubstantiated claim, publicly, that I’d been sent some sort of legal document for the email harassment of some unnamed party. I immediately called on him to release the letter, release copies of the emails, or any proof that any such incident ever happened, such a letter was ever drafted or sent, or that I’d ever received it. He didn’t. The truth is, I never received any such letter because none was ever sent. There were no harrassing emails. And there was no real complainant. But, as an honorable man, the prosecutor couldn’t release the name of the supposed aggrieved, who told the prosecutor, the prosecutor then told us, s/he didn’t wish to be named.<br /> [...]<br /><br />So I contacted the prosecutor’s office and demanded they look into it. The fact of that call was then used, I’d bet, to further build the narrative that I was so crazed and vindictive — and so bent on destroying an honorable man who just wanted to be left alone to prosecute gangbangers and cop killers — that I’d tried to cost him his job!</span></blockquote>
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<a href="http://www.lawyersgunsmoneyblog.com/2012/09/jeff-goldsteins-mental-health-problems-revealed/comment-page-1#comment-360201" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">SEK comes forward</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">He’s wrong. I did, and do exist. I’d been receiving daily, occasionally hourly, harassing emails from someone claiming to be Jeff. After getting fed up with having to deal with them, I did have a lawyer send a cease-and-desist warning to the address Jeff had provided me during this book event at the Valve. I mentioned this to Frey at some point, but I never gave him copies of the original emails or the warning, on the advice of my lawyer. Given that the emails stopped after I sent the letter, I was reluctant to identify myself for fear they’d start up again, but at this point, years removed, I doubt they will. So, there you have … something. I’m not sure what, but if it means I’m going to be receiving angry emails from Jeff again, I’ll likely regret having written this.</span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Patterico honored his promise not to expose SEK's name publicly (just to avoid the possible misunderstanding, Pat certainly never told me, either).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It's unfortunate that Jeff took his feud with Patterico into the real world by calling Pat'semployer and demanding an investigation based on something Patterico told the truth about. Jeff insists he was not going after Pat's job and that to say so is to be part of a conspiracy to ostracize Jeff. Jeff is a 'stay at home dad', so he may not be able to understand this, but pretend your boss got a call today while you're hard at work and it's Jeff demanding an investigation of why you lied (when you told the truth). Would you think Jeff was trying to help you get a promotion?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Anyway, it actually gets worse. Patterico is the target of smears from people who claim the mantle of "anonymous" as though it's their personal army and not simply a way to mask ID for deeds either good or evil. They have gone after people at work, contacting the employers of Liberty Chick, Aaron Worthing, and Patterico, and making false accusations while demanding investigations or termination. The escalation included attacks on his family, such as a hoax known as "SWATting" and also harassing comments expressing a desire to physically harm Patterico and his wife. Most people reading this know that. I won't elaborate.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The bad guys also spread disinformation, often with some element of truth twisted in to make the lie a little more difficult to suss out. They've successfully smeared a lot of people. They've successfully created a great deal of discord and mistrust. It's no surprise that Jeff, who already had a great deal of animosity towards Patterico, would be susceptible too.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">For some time, it's been clear they are trying to provoke Jeff G and Patterico into feuding again. And it worked:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Now, to make this as pointed as possible: a state prosecutor, in an online chat with a rather dubious character, broached the idea of using the hacker group Anonymous to harm me, my site, and so my livelihood — and left it up to Barrett and those he said he’d contact in Anonymous to decide on the actual mischief to be done, because, as the prosecutor notes in the chat, he doesn’t want to hear in advance about anything illegal.<br />Legal training. Bases covered. Plausible deniability.</span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> [...] <br /><br />This post isn’t meant as a long whine, or a complaint, or even really an explanation. As I wrote earlier, it is more of an unburdening, and the making public of things that I’ve come to learn over the last few years. It is not meant to open up old wounds. Finding out that I a public official was open to having Anonymous come after me was all that was needed for that to happen, but I held my tongue, because I knew the release of that tidbit was timed to problematize [the prosecutor's] work combating the lawfare campaign against Aaron Walker and others.</span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">If Jeff was holding his tongue to help Aaron, what caused him to stop doing so? Patterico isn't mentioning this. Jeff's citing </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">as responsible </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">something that was written 587 days ago.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I wanted to share my observations of the chat logs:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">1) Patterico is frustrated with Jeff's google bomb smear. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I considered the matter settled when Jeff deleted the post. </span><a href="http://proteinwisdom.com/?p=15623" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Here's the old link.</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> It no longer works. You can get the impression of the google bomb here:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">There's two sides to this: Jeff and his commenters seem earnestly convinced that this is defensible satire. They claim accusations of antisemitism based on nothing... completely malicious and untrue, combined with a prosecutor's full name and job title and employer, is legit satire of Patterico criticizing a comment. They say this is because it isn't possible to describe a comment as racist without describing the author as a racist. They say that when Patterico goes on and on saying he is not describing the author as a racist that this is worse because despite Pat's claims, they are sure he was, and thus he is even lying about what he's doing! It's very strange.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">But they have to do that. They have to make this false accusation in order to use that false accusation to justify doing what they are decrying. As justice. That they<i> just said</i> it was wrong never enters into the equation. Apparently their twisted and bizarre version of what Patterico did is OK if they are doing it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I asked Jeff many times why he needed to condemn Patterico by name instead of by his blog handle. Patterico doesn't make his online comments by any other name than Patterico. They are satirizing Pat's blogging, not his day job, right? I asked Jeff many times why he needed to link this accusation endlessly. How does this improve the satire? It seems only to help 'teach him a lesson' by increasing the IRL damage done by the 'satire'. As it worked out, people googling "Patterico" and familiar with the blog wouldn't even see the smear. Just people who googled him by name and/or job. In short, it's bullying.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Anyway, summary of this point is that there was a massive google bomb and Patterico was angry. Colleagues were actually asking him about it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">2) Barrett Brown broaches the idea of helping Patterico with these search results. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">12:42 AM Patrick: No, it's a link to another post that would take</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">me: oic</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Well</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">That can be changed</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">by one of several methods</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">12:43 AM Patrick: Oh?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">me: yep</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Jeff is mistaken to say Pat broached it, but that's the spin Barrett and Neal et al are providing and I understand the uncharitable are ready believe what they are told to believe. the log starts with Pat complaining about these posts, and when Barrett says "that can be changed", that's where it's broached. Pat's response "oh?" doesn't sound like he was talking about it anywhere earlier.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">3) Patterico makes clear he's not signing on to anything unlawful. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Jeff says this is 'covering his bases'. Well, it's also what Pat actually said. If Jeff's just going to insist that Patterico was lying in the chat log, we are no longer relying on the chat log as a source. We're relying on Jeff's good faith ability to divine Patterico's mental state. I think the literal interpretation of what Pat said makes more sense.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">But Barrett says:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">That's the payoff intended from the clips being where they were. It's telling that the worst parts aren't Patterico. If there was something actually showing what they would insinuate, they would have posted it. "Legal... but" could mean having a Google employee manually reduce the rank of the smears (or anything creative but not illegal). I guess it could mean another google bomb of Patterico's name, associating him with something more innocuous. Legal <i>doesn't mean </i>hacking or harassing people. Let's look again at Jeff's summary.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">a state prosecutor, in an online chat with a rather dubious character, broached the idea of using the hacker group Anonymous to harm me, my site, and so my livelihood — and left it up to Barrett and those he said he’d contact in Anonymous to decide on the actual mischief to be done, because, as the prosecutor notes in the chat, he doesn’t want to hear in advance about anything illegal.</span></blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Nearly every aspect of this summary is incorrect. </i> Pat did not broach, did not mention any harm to Jeff's website, self, or career, and repeatedly disclaimed anything illegal. Pat did not say he merely didn't want to hear about crimes in advance. He disclaimed anything illegal from happening at all, and his comments plainly related to reducing the impact of Jeff's google bomb. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Barrett on the other hand... he seemed to want to steer the conversation elsewhere, but oddly doesn't 'go there' on his own. It sounds to me like he was trying to goad Patterico into asking for some kind of illicit favor. He wasn't able to, but I guess he can pretend he did and at least one guy will buy it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Yeah, I'll grant Jeff's right that Patterico was likely telling many people he had a problem with Jeff's behavior. Contacting employers and google bombs aren't cool. I think the entire conservative blogosphere hates that feud. Jeff's behavior doesn't hold a candle to the evil that Patterico has faced more recently, and it doesn't hold a candle to what Jeff's family had to deal with either. Let's go back to ignoring eachother.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8153213828106480989.post-79651556700876301012012-05-25T11:11:00.002-07:002014-01-30T00:01:17.678-08:00In Honor of Carl Delong<div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">
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<span style="font-size: small;">It's blog about Brett Kimberlin day. Thanks, Lee Stranahan, for a <a href="http://leestranahan.com/friday-may-25th-is-everybody-blog-about-brett-kimberlin-day" target="_blank">great idea</a>.</span></div>
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took a great man from his
family in the most grueling and tragic fashion. It's easiest to
understand Brett Kimberlin if one takes a good look at what he is
capable of.</span><span style="font-size: small;"> Carl Delong, a Vietnam veteran promoted to Major,
was just thirty nine when Brett Kimberlin ripped his body apart with a bomb hidden in a gym bag. His wife suffered an extremely painful severed artery. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Pictured: Carl Delong as paramedics respond to the scene.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Photo Credit: <a href="http://www.indystar.com/article/99999999/NEWS06/100919012/StarFiles-Speedway-Bombings-Part-1" target="_blank">Indystar.com</a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Brett’s motivation seems to have been to distract from another
crime. Many, myself included, are convinced he <a href="http://thetrenches.us/2012/05/for-brett-kimberlin-it-all-started-with-a-little-girl/" target="_blank">murdered Julia Scyphers and set bombs to get away with that crime</a>. Brett's selfish reasons don’t change what the Delong family went through.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Even though Brett’s attacks on my friends have been
recent, I can’t help but focus on Carl Delong today. He deserves to be remembered
and respected. Carl Delong loved his
family, but the physical and emotional pain he suffered led him to alcohol, outbursts, and
regrets. You can tell he tried as hard as he could, but the suffering he endured won the fight. He wasn’t asking for much out of life. He wanted to raise his kids and love his
wife. Brett stole so much from his
family.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">After learning he was going to lose his remaining leg, and after many surgeries and complications, Carl committed suicide by carbon monoxide, ending the misery. In the ensuing wrongful death suit, Brett petitioned
to have pain and suffering kept out of the discussion. He doesn't get to do the same here. Many are discussing his
lawfare. I want to focus on Carl.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Carl David Delong's last thoughts were in letters to his family. He went by the name David to his closest. Read his love for his wife and children and
learn about how fatherhood remained when everything else was gone:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>I am going to write several things
that may not make sense. But I'm trying to do my best, whatever you think of me
or don't think of me. I want you to know that <u>I do love you.</u> I love DeDe
Steve Eddy & Melissa very much. This sounds like an easy way out but it's
not.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>I have done you so many
misjudgement' and I don't know how else to set it straight. Don't think of me
too bad, because I am not all that tough or bad. Sometimes people that live
together take each other for granted. I guess that's the way I have been doing
to you. I don't have any real explanation for my actions and I don't expect you
to understand them. Please try to love me a little.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>You have been a wonderful wife and
Mother and I know I don't deserve you and you sure didn't deserve me. <u></u></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Carl wanted his wife, Sandra Delong, to know he was sorry if he made her feel taken for granted. I can only
imagine how difficult it was for the physically-fit Carl to lose so much
function and then rely on his wife to care for him. At the same time, he was battling resentment and anger over his
injuries and Brett's ability to elude responsibility. Carl wanted to make sure she knew
he appreciated her taking the burden. He wanted her to
love him in spite of his failings, which I am sure were quite human. When we fail, it’s often those
closest that we take it out on. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Brett
stole so much from Sandra, but he also stole from Carl assurance that he was
loved. Carl was a man who consistently took responsibility, even when it would have been reasonable to pass responsibility entirely to Brett (which I encourage everyone to do).</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>One day your Mom and Grand Ma will
tell you about me. I hope that when you grow older your Mom and Dad will read
this to you. Melissa I love you like I do some little blonde headed girl that
your Grand Mother and I knew when she was little, your Mother.</i></span></div>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Carl’s granddaughter who he never got to see grow up. All he wanted to send her was love.</span></pre>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>Eddy,</i></span></pre>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>Take care of DeDe and Melissa, just use your common sense
and you will be allright. Take care Ed.</i></span></div>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>David</i></span></pre>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Eddy was Carl’s son in
law. His last thoughts were encouragement and a request that his
beloved daughter and granddaughter be looked after. Carl’s last
thoughts were selfless. Fatherhood is defined, to me, as lifting others
into a position of responsibility. I think Carl would have agreed, but
he may add how he emphasized love.</span></div>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>DeDe,</i></span></pre>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>I know what you think of me, and I am sorry for that.
Don't ever cut your self short. Take care of Melissa and every now and then
give Eddy a prod not too hard, but gently. DeDe I'm sorry everything turned out
this way. I really and truly did not want it to. In one way or another just try
to love me a little.</i></span></div>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>I will always be your</i></span></pre>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><u>Dad</u></i></span></pre>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Again Carl’s need to be loved is tragic and moving. <b>Brett stole so much from this man.</b> Carl was sorry to his daughter for his
inability to cope with suffering few of us could cope with any better than he
did. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>Steve,</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>Just want you to understand son. I don't know what to
really say except, Steve I am very proud of you and I hope you never make the
mistakes that your Dad has. Forgive me please Steve, take care of your Mother
she needs you very much.</i></span></div>
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<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>Love Ya,</i></span></pre>
<pre style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>Dad</i></span></pre>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>P.S. Keep on with your band one of these days you will
make it.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Carl
shows that essential skill of fatherhood in encouraging his son while giving
his son responsibility. Carl’s last
thought was that his wife, Sandra, be looked after. I can only imagine how Carl felt. He was unable to take care of his family anymore. There were so many expenses and so much difficulty caring for
him, and he had news that he was going to lose his remaining leg. Constant painful and expensive surgery to
remove shrapnel from Brett Kimberlin’s bomb plagued Carl
until his death.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Carl
Delong, I honor you for your selfless service to our country, and much more I honor you for your love
of your family who I am sure loves you still today. </span><br />
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